In a bone headed move...you were right, fish are now in
QT. The male is now eating (with some help of garlic). The
LFS guy is great...he is a Marine Biologist and is real knowledgable and has been more than willing to answer all my questions. THanks for keeping my blonde roots in check with the fish. It did appear yesterday that the female had a white speck....keeping my eye out on that one. She still hasn't eaten....as of yet..but will give it a few more days. The
LFS guy said that if anything happened he would replace the fish (not really what I want...I want the fish to survive poor things). The male seems better and acclimating...As far as the anemone goes...he is doing fine...and he will be fine for my tank. It's really not that shy of 40 gal...and the tank has been up longer than 6 months.

One more addition though...I didn't know the peppermint shrimp were gonna pick on the anemone

...they might be finding a new home...
THANKS EVERYONE....I will keep you posted