| You're definitely not retarded. It can be confusing. It took me awhile to figure out why I couldn't "see" my tank thread when "I" posted but, then when someone else posted, bingo, there it was.
In your "user CP" have you requested instant e-mail notification of posts in subscribed threads?
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